Monday, January 24, 2011

What does a girl expect out of you?

A controversial topic indeed. What do they actually like? It's enigmatic. So I did some research on the Internet and found out some interesting facts. 







Protection Attention and Care: 
Girls love to be comforted and adored. From the moment they were born, they grow up under the protective wings of the fathers mostly. Therefore when they get in a relationship they likes to feel the same. So make sure you provide that protection she need, yet give her a substantial freedom. This is not about muscularity, it's about being there for her.



Be Smart
Being smart is about grooming your-self, being intelligent and being clean. Girls don't like guys that smells awful.  Groom yourself well, take a shower, before you go in front of her. Be clean and tidy! 







Be a sport
Girls like sporty guys. Not the extreme kind. But get yourself involved in some nice sport.  But make sure the sport is interesting to you.









Sense of humor  
Girls love when someone make them laugh. If you have a good sense of humor, well, your well over the fence.  This is valid for every single girl on earth, unless she doesn't know how to laugh. 










Talk! Talk! Talk!
Share your secrets, be open to her. They love to hear stories and share their's.  They like to be heard.



Faith is the key
A relationship solely depend on the faith you have for each other. Be faithful to her, trust her. 








Same interest
Make sure you share the same interests as the girl, even without it things might work out. But the ride is gonna be bumpy. And at some point the bond is going to shatter. 


Bottom Line: Lot of girls don't expect you to be Mr. Handsome.  Fill out the above checklist and that's it. 
I went through lot of posts related to this and I didn't find appearance in any of those. If the girl in your dreams expect that, forget her (or atleast this post). That means she doesn't care about the person inside you. 

8 comments:

  1. Experience Speaks!!!

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  2. ok...seems like thushan has become a love guru.....HAIL...I am following u

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  3. "I went through lot of posts related to this and I didn't find appearance in any of those."

    Ha haaa, doing homework to get to the gal you need :D

    Ela ela, come on bro, ohoma yan :D

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  4. @Ishan: Hey this was meant 4 ppl who are skeptic about their appearance. This has nothing to do with me. B'cos mama Mara Handsome ne....! :P

    @Pradeepa: Seems you've also done lot of research on this topic. Way to go bro...! :)

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